Surfin' the web

People have got it all wrong. Love is free. It’s not about flowers, chocolates, cards, and diamonds. It’s about special glances, laughter, kisses, and stolen moments.
Please take this as a compliment when I say, you don’t complete me. I complete myself. Emptiness cannot be filled by another person. It’s like putting a glass full of water next to a partially empty one. They may be closer together now, but one is still empty, and if a glass gives another the liquid it holds, now all you have is two, half full. Nobody is satisfied.So satisfy your own thirst, a brimming glass will run over, plenty of love flowing for all.
Don’t get me wrong, by this I don’t mean to be selfish. Just to realize you are complete no matter who is, or isn’t at your side. Stop looking for someone to fill the hole. Be whole on your own, you have that power. Then, seek a lover and partner brimming with awesome, just as you are. Someone who can afford to give, and won’t go emotionally bankrupt, because they are also rich with joy.
Companions in completeness, that is true bliss

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“Quiero que me oigas sin juzgarme
Quiero que opines sin aconsejarme
Quiero que confies en mi sin exigirme
Quiero que me ayudes sin intentar decidir por mi
Quiero que me cuides sin anularme
Quiero que me mires sin proyectar tus cosas en mi
Quiero que me abraces sin asfixiarme
Quiero que me animes sin empujarme
Quiero que me sostengas sin hacerte cargo de mi
Quiero que me protejas sin mentiras
Quiero que te acerques sin invadirme
Quiero que conozcas las cosas mías que más te disgusten
Quiero que las aceptes y no pretendas cambiarlas
Quiero que sepas que hoy cuentas conmigo…Sin condiciones"

Jorge M. Bucay